Posts Tagged ‘pugging strategy’

Y’know what?

I like knowing something that someone else wants to know but doesn’t know.

And while I do like to help people and share things I’ve learned, I like it even more when the asker COULD know what they wanted, if they did something simple, but they choose not to take the action required.

“Does anyone have a DPS meter?” Is one of those questions that gives me cruel pleasure.

Pleasure for two reasons: Yes, I have a DPS meter, but no, I’m not going to admit it to you nor share the results of it. If someone else does, that’s their decision, but I won’t do it, not even for friends.

Turning Annoyance Into Pleasure

I’ll admit, I didn’t always feel this pleasure… It used to really annoy me, and I’d frequently say “if you want to know the meters, install them…” but that just served to escalate my own annoyance when the person ultimately responded something confirming just how lazy they really were, and how much they expected others (complete strangers!) to enable their laziness. And of course, they didn’t feel guilty about this at all.

But, at some point in trying to feel good feelings more often than bad, I switched the way I looked at the situation and now find myself feeling pleasure about having knowledge that someone too lazy to get it themselves wants, and purposely withholding it.

According to the works of Esther Hicks (which are odd in some parts but very interesting and helpful in others if you’re into the self-help/”how to live a joyous life” genre of books), I moved from Irritation to Pessimism, which is a step UP the ladder towards Joy and Appreciation and Empowerment, and away from the bottom of the ladder of Fear, Grief, Depression and Powerlessness.

Am I Being Mean?

Yes, it’s true, it could be labelled “not nice” behavior, but I tell ya - I do this in other relationships as well, without guilt: I withhold certain types of information that someone could easily gather themselves if it were truly valuable information to them.

Why? Because I’ve learned that if I just GIVE them the answer they seek, I teach them they don’t need to take responsibility for what they want to acquire/learn - they can rely on the organization or knowledge of others to get what they want. And worse, if they’re someone I run into often, the more answers I give, the more they depend upon me as the source of their answers.

Oops, did I just twist my body while doing a little shrug? Is that why you’re on the floor? Oh, I’m sorry. Looks like you’d better get up, as we’re moving forward.

Funny Who Asks For Posting Of Meters…

I do find it interesting, tho, that the person asking for the DPS meters is either right on top on my charts, or way down at the bottom. Very few of them are in between. Maybe those people have meters and are striving, or maybe they just don’t care?

Do you have some type of damage meter installed and running when you do an instance or a raid?

Or did you take offense to my attitude above, because you’re one of those who cares about the meters but doesn’t have them installed for whatever reason? :)

(and yes, I know some people’s computers are too slow to run many addons. In my mind, a crappy computer is not a valid excuse for relying on complete strangers in a PUG, or even your “buddies” in a Raiding guild. RL friends, that’s up to you.)

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Pick Up Groups are the name given to parties that form without a previous agreed-upon roster or schedule, in order to take on content that can’t be handled solo at that level.

I’ve written a lot about them here in my blog, because over the years of playing, I’ve come to recognize the high value of them for any player who likes to experience the depth of the game in all of its aspects, and the social value that PUGging has given me when it comes to holding my own with new friends I make while playing the game.

Why PUG?

Lots of answers spring to mind, but some of the main ones for me, are this:

Why I PUG:

  • I like the concentrated encounters that dungeon runs offer (versus questing) - less running around, more playing
  • I like the quietness of a small guild of introverts for my general hangout - that chat window isn’t big enough to have real conversations going on very often
  • My friends aren’t always available for what I want to do, or there aren’t enough of us
  • I like my toons and love to practice all of their skills. Playing with different classes in a familiar encounter adds spice
  • As I PUG, I meet other players who are solid in skill and attitude and we become friends, and I begin to meet their friends
  • As my experience in PUGs grow, I’m invited to other parties with people I know play well more - and good players tend to gather together.
  • As a writer, PUGs also inspire me in compiling educational information for those who, like me, have a competitive edge to do well in whatever they do, even if they don’t have raiding aspirations :)

Why I Want My Friends To PUG

  • So that when you decide to join in on a dungeon run I advertise on chat in the Outland (or at level 70), you’re not making all of the cardinal sins that PUG-experienced players learned while PUGging in Azeroth. I don’t want to have to say “dude, you stink”.
  • So you have a basic clue of what you need to do to handle heroics and I don’t have to ask you each time whether you’re heroics geared when you say you’d like to come along
  • I want friends who will invite me into their dungeon group, without any type of reliance on me to help fill out the rest of the group.
  • I want to share experiences with my friends, as it’s much more fun that way - as long as it’s not my friend who is committing cardinal dungeon party sins out of lack of experience (and thus looking like they’re way younger than they are)

Now, that having been said, let me say this as well:

My Hunter was my first one up, and she really didn’t do a LOT of PUGs. I did some, and killed a lot of people until I figured out how to control my pet and use it as a tank, and negotiate tight areas with difficulty getting Ranged to be able to sling arrows.

When I hit Outland the day of the expansion release, I didn’t PUG at ALL with that toon, just did quests until I hit 70. I still rarely PUG with her as my Mage came up and that’s where I got comfortable with PUGging and my role in it.

My second and subsequent toons have all PUGged a lot. In fact, my Healing Priest who just hit 69 in her second run of Shadow Labs, has been PUGging since level 38 almost exclusively for experience and leveling (52-58 I gave up, went Shadow and ground my way to Outland then went back holy and back into LFG). The toons lower than her are also on the same trek, with a few more traded run-throughs with friends added in there.

So, I understand getting familiar with the game, making a few friends and doing quests with another person or two, and only having larger parties on rare occasions to take down some group quest outside an instance… but once someone has any aspiration to get some gear from dungeons or experience the whole dungeon thing, I think PUGging is important and a respectful way to show your friends you want to do your part to be a solid contributor in the group.

So, maybe you don’t PUG with this main toon for a bit, maybe you PUG with a lowbie where others are just as inexperienced as you. The skills transfer to your higher level toon as many are basic dungeon etiquette and dungeon processes more than class skills.

And of course, if you’re on a 14.4k modem or simply don’t have the time to even consider dungeon instances, no need to PUG.

But please, when I ask if any DPS wants to join in on a run that’s forming in the Outland (Azeroth is way more forgiving and quite okay - it’s where everyone is still learning the ropes), don’t decide that now is the day you’re going to “try dungeons”. Jumping in to the deep end will be stressful for both of us ;)

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25
Jun

Clean Up & A Request For Opinion

   Posted by: WoWGrrl    in General

Heya folks!

I’ve been going through my blog and cleaning things up over the past few weeks - after upgrading my version of Wordpress and getting a new design a couple of months ago (thanks to my brother, yay!), I’ve been working with the new technology tie-ins by turning what used to be Categories into Tags (which feed into Technorati where Categories did not), and refining my Category list quite a bit so it’s not so full of junk.

In doing these hours of update, I’m going through every single one of the posts that I’ve done in the past and am editting the Categories and Tags, and re-saving the entries. So, I’m getting to see some stuff I’d forgotten about, and it makes me think…

Since I’m updating, I should probably go and update the Etiquette and Class Tips pages that are listed as navigational links - they need some serious update, as they haven’t had “new” entries reflected in their listings for probably about a year.

What Entries Did You Most Enjoy?

I was wondering… are there any particular entries that you, the reader, think should strongly be considered for inclusion on these pages when I update them?

If any come to mind and you’d like to share your opinion, I’d sincerely appreciate it - leaving a note on the entry itself is probably the best way to communicate it.

The search function at the top of the first sidebar should help you find the exact entry, and don’t forget to rate the entry 1-5 stars as well :)

Here are some I will probably link in there somewhere, from just before my foray into Raiding:

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