I like this game, I really do.

I like how powerful my Mage is getting - he’s at +706 frost damage unbuffed. I was second on the damage meters for an overgeared-team 3-boss Karazhan run that was put together after a Gruul’s run where we brought him down with only one wipe…

But now any progression with him is FUN, but feels like it’s “too much progression”, and I’m thinking it’s time to start spending some more serious time on the other toons I have, levelling and gearing them up.

I’m really not a raider, having played this game for 2.5 years and not having gotten into it yet. I have, however, enjoyed attending a few raids recently and like that I’ve seen the inner workings of at least one raiding guild that seems to have a low-stress, high morale environment in their progression team - and that would be a team that I’d love to join if I wanted to raid.

But, see, I have other aspirations with my Warcraft Gaming Time[TM]!

I like writing on the casual play topics, and the topics that are helpful to someone still seeking that great raiding guild to join (maybe just a “casual guild that raids” that would accept all of your friends and family members, no matter what level, while you raid with the 70s).

I believe there are many more players in this Casual category than there are in the category of folks who want to and are high enough level and gearing to get into a guild that has 10-man Karazhan on farm with multiple groups and is close to having 25-man Gruul’s on farm as well.

So, What’s The Struggle?

Seems like I have it all figured out, doesn’t it?

Too bad there’s other people in this story - other people who would like other outcomes. Other people who almost EXPECT other outcomes, because, well, most people who are geared up like my Mage is… want to raid. In fact, people who are way LESS geared than me want to raid, since a Raider’s Heart, I believe, is beating quite fiercely by the time a player reaches level 40 already, and hits overdrive when that player hits the level cap.

But me? I just wanna prove that gearing up to raid in 10 and 25 person dungeons while playing in a social/casual guild that does NOT raid, is an actual possibility for players. To prove that you don’t HAVE to leave your casual/social guild in order to dip your toes into raiding, and that maybe - like getting married or finding a company you stick with for years - it’s best to “try out” a few raid guild scenarios before making the tag-change leap.

It’s tough to do, however, because early commitment to a group or a cause seems to be the norm in today’s society, and carefully reviewing from afar is held in suspicion.

Personally, I find that odd when I really think about it - am I alone in thinking that the ones who would instantly jump into your guild with very little review would also be the ones jumping out with little more review?

*ponders more*

I guess there’s a line, however, as with everything… the line of “enough review has been done, you should be able to make up your mind by now” that either side may face.

Clarifying Goals/Availability/Intent With Raid Leaders

And that’s why I talked to the GM/MT/RL of the guild I’ve gone into Gruul’s twice with and Karazhan twice with in the last couple of weeks, and with whom I’m scheduled to go into Tempest Keep over the weekend unless a guildie can fit the spot better. I told him that while I’m very impressed with his guild progression team and his own leadership style in the guild, I just can’t get “into” raiding more than once in a while because of my own personal goals writing eBooks about the pre-raiding scene.

He probably thinks I’m full of myself, but (aren’t we all?) I will continue to do as I have said I would - gear myself up, bring proper consumables, sign up for and show up on time/early for the progression raids I can make it to, and have a great attitude no matter how many times we wipe. I will be happy for them on the day that they find a Mage that can start to take over my spot in the raid, and will continue to check in with them and cheer them on when they no longer need me because their progression team vastly outgears me (instead of merely outgearing as may be the case right now ;) ).

And in the mean while, I’m going to start to do some instance runs with my 70 Hunter to gear her up better, while I continue to level up my pre-60 Rogue and Priest toons, running with friends/guildmates whenever possible but still PUGging it up for skill building and Friends list amplification ;)

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World of Warcraft is a massively MULTIPLAYER online role playing game.

There are now some 9 MILLION registered players according to Blizzard, and it’s THE most popular online role playing game going.

With that many PEOPLE playing the game, it’s important as a member of the WoW community on your realm to think about how you can do things to “win friends and influence people”, as having friends in-game can be a huge benefit to you in ways you cannot comprehend nor predict when you first begin playing.

What is “Social Wheel Greasing”?

At some point in life we all learn that certain mechanical objects work better when they’re well-oiled than when they haven’t been oiled in a while. Not only that, but the guy who brings oil is appreciated by anyone who has experienced the pain of a poorly-oiled machine.

This applies to WoW as well: The player who has taken the time to prepare adequately for a group encounter is able to do their part in being part of that well-oiled machine, and isn’t the one to cause the group to “seize up” and experience complications.

Why Worry About Greasing The Wheels?

It’s completely possible to get your WoW toons from creation to max level without ever relying on another person (outside of those using the Auction House) to help you. If you’re fine with being 100% solo, then don’t worry about this stuff unless it directly helps you. Or, if you have Real Life friends playing, this may not apply.

However, most of us enjoy the opportunity to join our friends for questing groups, or join in on 5-person or larger parties that are going into progressively more difficult dungeons located throughout the game, and most of us are going to rely on building friendships with virtual strangers in order to join this experience.

So, in short, only worry about it if you’re interested in doing more dungeon-based group content or if you’ve got a dream to “maybe, someday, perhaps, join a raiding guild” with any of your characters.

How Does Wheel Greasing Help?

Truth: Relationships online aren’t like ones you develop with people you’re in the same room with. Physical presence offers a lot of influence and is less easy to ignore than when “you” are just words written on my screen.

As a result, players who have an interest in joining this fun and dynamic portion of the Warcraft universe (dungeon parties, guild questing groups, anything non-solo) benefit from learning how to “stand out” from the Average Player, while also learning to recognize other players who strive to be Above Average.

Average Players tend to get left behind when the “A Team” wants to go out and do a group-based venture because the A-Team consists of players who “go the extra mile” to make sure they’re in tip-top condition for contributing to the dungeon or raid team.

Are There Costs To Wheel Greasing?

Becoming a well-rounded Warcraft character does cost money, just like becoming a well-rounded Human Being does.

Some of the money comes in the form of skills learned, some in the form of materials purchased, and all require some of your time and purposeful attention.

Are There Downsides To Wheel Greasing?

Sure. Some players feel entitled to take advantage of any help offered them and the Wheel Greaser will be burned on occasion as a result - giving way more than they ever get back. It’s up to the Wheel Greaser to also step back emotionally and learn effective strategies for recognizing “users” before you allow yourself to get resentful.

When Does Wheel Greasing Pay Off?

The techniques one would use for the wheel-greasing actually benefit yourself as a player, so the technical pay-off does come right away.

However, the social pay-off is slower to accumulate and requires patience of its pursuers. I have noticed that below level 20, very few people stand out in dungeon parties as those who have gone the extra mile, even if they have begun the process. During the 20-30 trek the A-Team players tend to congregate more often within parties, but many level at different paces. (if you’re looking for a good levelling guild, join the guild of someone you’ve enjoyed running a dungeon or two with at this range as a great start)

By level 62, in low-level Outland dungeons, players who have not taken the time to round out their characters for Wheel Greasing begin to stand out like a sore thumb in the parties I take part in. By the level 70 pre-heriocs dungeons, Wheel Greasing techniques can help you make a great showing - even if you’re a bit undergeared - when you luck into a party with an obvious A-Team.

So, What Do I Do To “Grease The Wheels”?

Stay tuned, I have more entries coming in, now that I have this introduction that I can point back to :)

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